Ghosting 101: Why It Happens and How to Handle It Like a Pro
By Kabir Desai | 8 min read | 03 Aug 2024
In the modern dating world, ghosting is becoming more common. It's like one minute you are exchanging texts and calls, and the next minute there are no traces of the other person. It can be frustrating, painful, and confusing. Here is the guide to navigating the world of ghosting like a pro.
Why Ghosting Happens
1. Fear of Confrontation
Many people are not able to express their feelings honestly, especially when they are not positive. So instead of facing them, they go and choose to disappear.
2. Lack of Connection
Sometimes, when people don’t feel any kind of connection, they prefer to fade away rather than explaining their lack of interest.
3. Overwhelmed by Life
Personal life can be busy with life issues, and stress, and busy schedules can make someone take away from any kind of social interactions, including dating.
4. Immaturity
Some people lack the emotional maturity to end things respectfully, so they just choose to ghost instead.
How to Handle Ghosting Like a Pro
1. Don’t Take It Personally
Remember, no one can decide your worth, especially anyone you are talking to online, it's their fault they can’t communicate clearly and not yours.
2. Give It Time
If someone hasn’t replied in days, it doesn’t mean they are ghosting you, sometimes life happens. If you’re feeling uncertain, you can send a normal message. If there’s still no response after that from their side, it’s time to move on.
3. Stop Overthinking
Do not waste your time trying to figure out what could have gone wrong. Sometimes there are no clear answers, and going deep into it will only make you feel worse.
**4. Keep Moving Forward
The best way to handle ghosting is to keep moving forward. Don’t let one bad experience stop you from finding someone who appreciates you.
Conclusion
Ghosting is never pleasant, but it is a sad reality in the dating world. Always remember, that the right person will respect you and communicate with you openly. Just stay positive.
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